What I learned in 2019...

2019 has tried me to say the least. It has been the best and it has been the worst. I have felt every emotion and have had every thought. I have questioned so many things, sat alone with the universe and asked her to lead me.

Have you ever sat down with yourself? And I mean truly sat with yourself uncomfortably?

Have you ever sat with your own demons and had to control yourself, your thoughts and your emotions?

This year has taken some key players. The amount of time that our souls are given in this lifetime, in this human form is very limited. We are on borrowed time so the best we can do for ourselves, for each other, for the universe, for our children is to hold ourselves accountable, grow, and heal. In all reality we can only hold ourselves accountable but that it is all it takes. It all starts within.

As we get closer to the end of 2019, and the century; I have been doing some reflecting as I am sure we all are. This past century has been a ride, this year alone has been an experience. I am honored, grateful, and excited for all the things I am manifesting and working on. I am blessed for the loyal people in my life, and their support. I am ready, I am here 10 toes down.

What I’ve learned in 2019;

o Always say I love you, you never know when it will be the last time you get to see or speak to someone you love

o Stop assuming the people you love know that you love them, a quick appreciation text goes a long way once in a while

o Learn to sit by yourself uncomfortably.

o Water yourself and fill your cup regularly

o Expectations hurt us

o Nobody owes you a thing

o Surround yourself with those whom are loyal and are in your life because they want to

o Feeling is the real strength

o What doesn’t kill you truly makes you stronger

o If it didn’t kill you that means your purpose is bigger then what you think

o Love people who love you

o Love people who choose you

o Believe the walk never the talk

o Love truly doesn’t hurt

o People never change

o People never change until they are ready to deal with their traumas

o People never change until they truly learn about self-love

o You never have to ask someone that loves you to stop hurting you

o People change when they are ready and for whom and what they are ready

o Not everyone is meant to stay in your life (no matter how bad you try and want them to.)

o True intimacy is vulnerability

o You can’t deny a soul connection

o Family can be toxic and it shouldn’t be excused

o It’s ok to take a day off from the world

o The best revenge is no revenge at all; just keep it moving

o Hurt people, hurt people

o People’s actions have more to do with them then you

o You only play a secondary role in people’s life’s except your own

o Never stop seeking knowledge

o The game is going to test you

o When it does remember your end game

o Always have an end game (purpose)

o It won’t all go as planned (and that is ok)

o When it doesn’t go as planned remember success is messy

o Healing is messy

o The prettiest people do the ugliest things

o You won’t ever be enough for the wrong person even on your best day (that is a blessing in disguise)

o You will always be enough for the right person even on your worst day (that is a blessing)

o Giving in abundant

o Don’t be obstructed by the deed

o Believe in yourself

o Don’t let people tell you about you!

o Don’t jeopardize your growth for history

o We don’t possess people

o Healthy friendships matter

o Have healthy relationships so you can learn to have a healthy romantical relationship

o Being solid does not mean for you to take abuse of any form

o Listen to your soul

o Listen to your gut

o Change starts with you

o Childhood traumas are a thing

o Communication is key

o Listening to comprehend not just to respond is key

o Stop feeding your ego

o Instant gratification only feeds your ego

o You silence your ego for whom you truly love

o Energy is transferred never destroyed

o Constantly seek knowledge

o Do what makes you happy

o Learn self-discipline

o Stop saving people from their own karma

o Just because you are “woke”, and a healer it doesn’t mean you can’t remind a bitch or two of who you are

o Don’t talk bad about people (you don’t know their story)

o You can’t excuse your shitty behavior behind a traumatic event in your life (G R O W)

o Everything is mental

o Keep your eyes on your own paper

o Social media is a lie

o Believe victims

o Everything that shines isn’t always gold

o You can’t deny what is real

o Someone who truly is a good person doesn’t need to constantly remind everyone that they are a good person

o Boundaries are good

o Possessiveness isn’t real love

o Check your energy before stepping out into the world

o Build people up

o If you don’t believe in them or support their cause that is ok but that doesn’t give you the right to talk bad about them or their hustle. Just keep it moving.

o Find your purpose

o Learn your partner’s love language

o Don’t settle! In any aspect of your life!

o You deserve the love you want and need but also make sure that you are ready to give that love as well.

o Loving someone doesn’t mean that you have to be with them

o Praying/sending good vibrations into the world on behalf of someone else is real love and it works

o Doing things by yourself doesn’t mean that you are lonely

o Everyone doesn’t need to agree with you

o Everyone’s spiritual growth is different

o Smile often

o Cry often

o Set a day aside for self-love

o Silence the negative voice inside your head

o Do things you are scared of (they help you grow)

o You can’t run from your souls desires

o Recognize when you are wrong

o Be resilient to your dreams

o Your job will replace you in a heartbeat

o People’s definition of progress doesn’t have to match yours and vice versa

o Follow your happiness not theirs

o Always go all in

o Give thanks daily

o People will criticize your best ideas

o Live life, no actually live a life worth living.

o Dios aprieta pero no ahorca

o Be you

What have you learned?

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